Monday, May 28, 2012

Yes, LA was a nice surprise

We did make it to Los Angeles and the auditioning convention--iPOP--International Presentation of Performers, it was a wonderful experience.  I was unable to update this blog because I was so busy before the event working part time, rehearsals with drives to Seattle, parenting and supporting a very busy high school student...FUNDRAISING.. (!!!!!) At the iPOP event we all were awarded trophies for various skills, featured as singers in a huge showcase, and made contact with several agents who were personally interested in us.

Just a note: even though the huge, yes international (there was a group from China in addition to UK & Europe), event is very focused on auditioning youth--my advice: never go through all the agony of preparation and the financial angst to take a child to iPOP UNLESS you truly are prepared to spend a lot of money and time later traveling to and/or living in Los Angeles. Yes, there are truly legitimate agents there and Yes, there are many success stories regarding children and their rise in an acting career. I am just saying, no matter how beautiful and talented your child is, even with the exposure of iPOP there is still afterward,  hard work, stress and financial outlay...and years (years) of auditioning ahead.

It is now 2012. Maria has moved to Los Angeles. A college graduate with an LA job that provides medical benefits and a flexible schedule, she carefully planned her move to LA. She lives in a house with like-minded roommates and has a new support zone of friends and church activity. She has beautiful headshots, a resume and has been to several auditions. She has had a featured role in an Independent short film. She is "working her plan".

James received a lot of agent attention at iPOP and was featured in an "audition only" showcase as a singer, which included and audience of screaming girls, his image on big flat-screen monitors, etc, etc.... He has since co-written and professionally recorded a song. Listen to it at www.HowDidYouKnow.viinyl.com and he has had private vocal coaching from the vocal coach of several American Idol finalist. Like AI finalist, David Archuleta, James has chosen to pause his whirlwind life for two years to serve full-time as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He will resume his music career in the Fall of 2013.

Since iPOP, I have been singing with two different 19-piece swing bands and have been gaining strength in my voice. I have done some auditioning in the Seattle area where we still reside and have been featured in a national TV commercial filmed in LA, with stunningly lucrative compensations including a first class flight and driver.



Preparing for iPOP was one of the most huge, frightening and exhilarating thing I have done in a while. A fabulous growth experience in many ways for myself, Maria and James.  It was a very humbling experience as well to receive the deep support of family and friends. We have been blessed. I won't be writing in this blog any longer. I have a new one called Inspired2Succeed. I am moving forward in my goals. Struggling. Despairing. Procrastinating. And still moving forward. ---Best Wishes, Andrea

Monday, June 21, 2010

What--I Have To Pour Beer?!

Have you ever been to the "expensive level" of a professional sports arena? My visit to the Club Level at Qwest Field in Seattle was a first for me. Maria and I signed up to participate in a fund-raising concessions stand at Qwest Field, and each time several of our friends graciously worked along side us. Each person who came with us added to our portion of the profits from the concessions. This amount was received at the JRP offices and added to our personal LA trip account .

Unfortunately, James, at 17 years of age was not allowed by Qwest Field HR to work in the concessions stand. Because Maria and I were both over age 21 we were assigned to work at the front counter. Those people ages 18-20 worked in the background putting hot dogs in the steamer, heating up pretzels, passing food orders to those at the counter and restocking paper products. There were also salaried cooks employed by the restaurant contractor at Qwest Field who cooked the mini pizzas and the panini sandwiches. There was a "parent volunteer", an extremely patient woman, who organized the changing collection of volunteers week after week.

I went into this project with gnawing trepidation. I have a phobia with numbers and most things mathematical. I think it's an ADD-ish thing...( not meant as a pun, I mean a brain functioning thing...) If you want to raise my pulse all you need to do is put a Suduko grid in front of my eyes.

I was depending on our concessions efforts, combined with our friends', to be a major part of our fund-raising. Driving up to Qwest Field I had great hopes that I could just be in the background cooking hot dogs and pretzels. Imagining a possible assignment as a cashier at the front counter caused me anxiety. I took slow breaths and reminded myself that I knew how to (slowly) count change, and using a digital cash register should make everything easy. I was passionate and determined to be successful at this for myself and my kids. I would even do math to get my kids to that performance stage in Los Angeles.

At Qwest Field we worked at Seahawks' football games and Seattle Sounders' soccer games. Our family's opportunities to fund raise in this way were limited because we were only able to work on Saturdays. Most games fell on Sunday. We are devout members of the LDS (Mormon) faith and use the Sabbath to focus on worship and spiritual rejuvenation. We choose to avoid things like shopping on Sunday or sporting events on Sunday, etc.

Even as a non-fan it was interesting to me to be a part of the Qwest Field behind-the-scenes game day. The only sporting events that truly interest me are those in which my children participate. I'd never pay the exorbitant price to watch a professional game because know that I would zone out, daydream and miss the game. It would be a waste of money. Also--this is weird, but--I really don't care who wins. Okay....well, I care if Brigham Young University teams beat the University of Utah sports teams, and the University of Washington Huskies make me happy, but I still don't think I could pay attention at any of their games either.

Here is how things went on game day: We were given the location of free parking for workers at the field. This location changed from game to game and sometimes involved quite a walk through Seattle. (And it was always sunny, no kidding.) Concessions workers were required to wear black pants and shoes and white shirts. On game day there was always a mass processional of uniformly dressed people strolling from the parking garage towards the venue. We were required to arrive at the field hours before the game, walking past security guards and barricades posted in preparation for the crowds of spectators.

Qwest Field is huge, clean and beautifully landscaped. It is next to the Seattle Mariner's sports arena, also a lovely, mammoth complex. There are huge banners displayed of individual sports figures whose names are familiar even to me, non-fan that I am. Even I felt a sense of excitement walking past Security and into the private back doors to Qwest Field.

We walked along a vast, cement corridor that encircled the stadium below the tiered seating. Suddenly there was an open space to my right. There was the players' broad, open walkway to the field! The grass was bright green, the seating rose steeply to glassed-in viewing boxes above. I was not prepared for the breath-taking size of the stadium. I wanted to run out on the field and sing the National Anthem.

Stern-faced, beefy security guards stationed near the players' locker room glared at me when I slowed my pace at the field entrance. I smiled, and hurried to catch up with my group heading towards the mammoth freight elevator.

We rode the elevator to the Third level, the Club Level. Spectator tickets at this level are pricey, and I was always amazed at the number of fans that crowded that area on game day. Here the corridor also encircled the stadium seating, but it is lushly carpeted and softly lit like the hushed hallway of an expensive hotel. We walked past a large open restaurant area with giant plate-glass windows overlooking the field. We walked past several closed doors. One opened, a waiter came out and looking in, I saw it was a box seating room--cushioned chairs and a large window over-looking the field far below. It seemed odd to me that people would pay so much money to sit so high above the field and watch the (at that distance) tiny-figured players from behind a glass window. Wouldn't that be the same as watching the game from the cushioned recliner in your home, on television, for free?

We continued our walk past other concessions stands, these were like large "food court" type eateries in a carpeted, lush environment. The back space of our concession stand was surprisingly small, warm and cramped. There were commercial refrigerators, steamers, and big ovens with racks of trays filled with giant pretzels, heating. Our first discouraging assignment was Inventory. Each paper cup, pretzel tray, frozen pizza, case of hotdogs, etc, etc had to be carefully counted both before the game and at closing time.

Duty assignments were also given. Everyone over 21 was required to man a cash register at the front counter. My heart began pounding faster, I realized that there was a separate key on the register for every item, even for each flavor of pop, and the printing on the keys tiny and abbreviated...math skills, memory skills, swift dexterity...oh, no. At the register the duty included happily greeting customers, taking their order, helping assemble the order, getting their drinks and processing their money or credit card. Additionally, we needed to ask for ID of those ordering beer, and check the ID for the correct birth year. We would be fired on the spot if we served anyone under-age, (even if it was a math calculation error), plus--throughout the evening there would be under-age "plants" testing for our ID compliance along with follow-ups by liquor control officers.

My anxiety level increased. Then I realized that in addition to serving bottles of pop and occasional cups of coffee, we cashiers also served beer, pouring it into open cups. Okay. wow.... So another new territory. I told the group leader that I was Mormon, and didn't even drink beer....could I just go in the back and put hot dogs in the steamer?

"We don't want you to drink the beer, just serve it. We need you to cashier."

Maria and I looked at each other. She smiled. I reflected on the fact that, due to my personal and religious code of health, I also don't drink caffeinated drinks like Coke or coffee, but if a customer ordered one I would serve it without much thought. So, beer is just another beverage to the customer, right?

Maria and I were given cups to practice pouring beer.Our leader demonstrated the technique. I tilted the cup at an angle under the beer faucet. I pulled down the large porcelin handle and watched the beer pour into the clear cup. At a precise moment, I learned that if you suddenly righted the angled cup, the level of foam at the top of the drink was greatly reduced. I knew anecdotaly that beer drinkers didn't like foam on their drink. I decided that if I had to serve beer I would do the best job I could. All night long I practiced with each customer and very quickly learned when to tilt the cup, only leaving a scant 1/8" foam head. One man watching my skill switched to my register to benefit from my precision.

Pouring with accuracy was a game for Maria and I, and it makes me smile that she and I, the Mormons, have this newly discovered knack.

My fears regarding the cash register also receded, though there were occasional keying and money mishaps. I never, however, got over my trepidation regarding ID checking. I was so afraid of making a mistake, that I asked for ID from pretty much every person that didn't look elderly. That seemed to make most people cheerful, thinking they looked so young.

There were large, flat-screen TVs everywhere to watch the game action, and just to our right were large glass doors through which the periodic sounds of the crowd cheering caused our waiting customers to also break out in cheers. It was a festive atmosphere. It was also touching to me to see how many families, with both parents, were there with young children, realizing the financial cost it was for them all to be there. It was also very sweet to observe the enthusiasm of fathers and young sons sharing the fun of the day with each other.

When the game was over we had Inventory all over again, re-counting every item, even the burnt pizzas that got tossed in the discard box. The Club Level emptied out fairly quickly post-game. Occasionally I would stand at the large glass doors over-looking the confetti strewn field and just admire the vastness of a place I had only seen on television.

We were all exhausted, with aching feet, at the conclusion of cleanup and Inventory. It was more than an hour after the game's end that we were able to walk back to our car and drive the two hours home. I am still in awe of the kindness of our many friends who volunteered to help us each time we asked, just so we could participate in the LA experience.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Veteran's Day "Brilliant" Fundraising

Veterans Day was approaching. I had another great fundraising idea.

There is a neighborhood of Senior Citizens in our town, tidy homes and yards, all close together. What if we went door-to-door singing patriotic songs…like Christmas caroling?? We could wave little USA flags, tell them about our LA performance opportunity and accept any donation amount they would like to give us. Surely Senior Citizens would have soft hearts both for the meaning of the day and for our inspiring songs.

In theory it seemed like a great idea. Inside, I was kind of a wreck about the idea--it was way, way out of my comfort zone; but, didn't that mean that this would be a good "growing experience" for me? Maria and James were less confidant regarding the opportunity for growth, but being the great kids they are, they went along with my (forced) enthusiasm and off we went to the nice neighborhood.

Imagine the extreme trepidation we felt as I parked the car. The neighborhood was silent except for a man mowing his lawn. We walked to the first house. I kept telling myself that I was breaking free of my fears, growing to a new level. I put on a cheerful face and with my two “team members”--Maria and James-- approached the first door. My heart pounded faster than my fist knocking on the door.

Slowly the door opened a crack, its outer glass door still firmly closed. We joyfully waved our little USA flags and sang “God Bless America”. I stammered out our explanation of why we were there. A wary and surprised elderly woman stared back at us and began to close her door.

I quickly told her about our singing telegram idea and that we were raising money for our trip to sing in LA...

She said, "Well, I'm all alone here and I don't have any money.." and quickly shut the door.

My kids stared at me. I took a breath, put on a cheerful smile and surged forward to the next house, talking to the nervous voices in my head. James was muttering in frustration behind me. Next house--no one was home; next house--another very surprised grandma. I tried to just tell her about the Veterans Day singing telegram idea and didn't mention money.

She said, "Oh, that's nice." and shut the door firmly as I happily called out “Happy Veterans Day!”

So, that was is for me. My brave facade crumbled.

I looked about the silent little neighborhood, stared at my stony-eyed children, “So, I think this is a bad idea afterall…” I mumbled

We piled back in the car and drove away.

I love the USA and flag waving, I get joyful tears when I sing patriotic songs, I honor our military ; however, this Veteran's Day activity is definitely not something I will ever try again. Door-to-door singing should probably only happen at Christmastime.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Fundraising Adventures

Among the excitement of Stylists, music and acting preparation there was always an undercurrent of nagging reality---the three of us going to this event in Los Angeles required lots of money, thousands of dollars, even with me being given a free pass to attend. The JRP organization required specific payments on a rigid timeline in order for our family to move forward in this opportunity. In the detailed prep information we received from JRP regarding the iPOP event there was a lengthy section filled with fundraising.

I felt a continuous nagging sense of anxiety. How were we going to raise the thousands of dollars needed in a few short months? This was such a personal, non-traumatic activity, why would others want to financially help for our family ?

The first thing I chose to do was pray often, listen to the inspirational thoughts I felt and try to have faith. I also knew that the three of us had to feel like a team in order to make this work. I became the “idea” person of the team, Maria the money handler—she was always the best Banker when we played Monopoly…and James became the voice of reality reining me in by his very clear teenage perspective.

We had been told by JRP that one of the parents oversaw a concessions stand at Qwest field in Seattle. We could sign up to work during events there, with the proceeds of the evening being divided up among those who worked. Anyone we brought with us would be counted towards our efforts as well, the money would then be sent directly to our JRP account.

Qwest field is a mammoth sports facility where professional football and soccer games are held. Seattle is about a 2 hour drive one-way for us. To make it cost effective for us I knew that we would need to bring several friends with us each time we worked there in order for it to really pay off. Our adventures at the field will be the subject of another post.

In another approach to fundraising, I went to the director of the Chamber of Commerce in our town. Her family had also been involved in theater; lucky for me she was an avid supporter of both family and the Arts. She invited me to write a brief article for the Chamber’s monthly newsletter, which I did. This introduced our efforts to the business community. She also suggested specific businesses that might be supportive of displaying our music CD.

We made little CD display boxes and took them to a few stores that allowed us to place them on their counters. For a donation to our trip fund, patrons could take home a CD.

Also, I did a Google search for fundraising ideas and came upon a free site that allowed one to make a page with a photo regarding the funding need, and then it sent announcements via email to our friends; it also had a money collection point on the site. I was pretty excited about that idead. I made a neat little announcement with a pro looking photo of (heartthrob handsome) James, posted it and waited. We had a few contributors to it, but I realized that I needed to do a lot of promoting of the site to get the notice we needed.

Another good step in fundraising--I enlisted the help of an enthusiastic young woman, friend of our family, Melissa who added the needed support to our flagging spirits. She made phone calls for us and was a great sounding board, always positive that we would be successful.

We held two Yard Sales, receiving an overflow of goods from friends who wanted to help….and also discovered in an unsettling way that permits are required in our little town for Yard Sales, and there actually is a (very) dedicated Yard Sale permit checker, who doesn’t seem to have much of a sense of humor.

Donations to our cause came in from dear friends and relatives. We sang door-to-door for Veteran’s day---also the subject of another post. We gave a free community concert at our wonderful local bookstore at Christmastime where we received donations and enthusiastic support; we had a lengthy and positive article written in our local paper about our project.

As the deadline approach for final payment we were still more than a thousand dollars away from the goal. We were discouraged, I began to have second thoughts about the whole venture, yet as I prayed about it the negative thoughts were replaced by peace. I knew this was a good choice for us at this time and I had no idea where the rest of the money would come from.

Then I received a phone call from my parents. I had not asked them for money, wanting to be independent and also not sure how they felt about our project—the child in me afraid of negative opinion. My mother asked how much more money we needed. When I told her, she said that she and my dad would like to loan us the rest, that they supported us in our dream.

Tears of gratitude welled up as I spoke with her. In my childhood she was always the one who bought the final boxes of Girl Scout cookies from me. She always bought chocolate bars or stationary at my school fundraisers, and that always surprised me because she needed neither of those things.

Gratitude, love, thankfulness…the anxiety was gone and replaced by deep emotion for family, friends and our community. We were really going to go to Los Angeles.

Friday, January 1, 2010

A New Year & A New Hair Color

Happy New Year to you; as I write this it is a few minutes before midnight, Dec. 31, 2009, here in the Northwest…my daughter in Boston has been living in 2010 for about three hours already. Our trip to Los Angeles is just around the corner, what will this new year bring to us??


Most of the money for our trip has been raised, thanks to so many people; we have a few loans from dear relatives that we are working to pay back and we earned a great deal of cash. Now the adventure seems like a reality and we are working on the details, but they are fun details.


A few weeks ago the three of us went to get our hair styled according to the LA stylist’s evaluation. We decided to stay local and went to a highly recommended salon in our own town. The appointments were made at the same time a press release on us came out in the paper, luckily…the stylists were so very excited for us that they gave us deep discounts.


Maria’s hair grows fast, however it grows at different rates depending on the hair section. As I mentioned in a previous post her hair had been left rather “chunky” when she had me cut it for a “Locks of Love” donation this past summer. Now it was looking more uneven as it grew. The woman at the salon did a marvelous job of trimming the ends so that they blended in together. Now Maria’s long hair looks nicely layered.


James, after I told him the stylist wanted him to grow out his hair, cut his hair. His hair was “bugging” him so he decided to just buzz it all off. He figured it would grow back before January. I just smiled, I figured he was right, well, HOPED, he was right.


He actually looks great with short hair; he was blessed with a nice-shaped head and great cheek bones. His hair did eventually grow a bit, though not as quickly as Maria’s. At our hair appointment the stylist just trimmed around the edges for him. His hair is about 3/4” on top now….and it is starting to “bother” him again. I showed him photos of what the stylists were hoping to do with his hair—Google images for David Archuleta, Rob Pattinson, Taylor Lautner—longish hair.


James sighed a little, and agreed to wait until after January for more self-haircuts.


I am the one that had the major stuff done. I showed my stylist photos of my “assigned” hair style and color. She did a great job blending two colors together to make a deep warm brown color, then cut my hair so it brushes my shoulder and has long sweeping side bangs. I was so happy; shiny hair, it is so easy to style. We really had a great time, so remember “Shop Local”..at least it worked for us.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

The Brady Bunch & Acting

We’re reaping the benefits of our fundraising already—we have our own acting coach, her fee is part of the cost of the iPOP convention. What do you think of when you hear the title, “acting coach”?


That first day we sat in our classroom waiting for the coach. Anticipation. I really hoped that it would be an experienced actor/teacher.


A small, exuberant woman with a bleached blonde, asymmetrical hair cut blew into the room talking non-stop. Her energy was astounding, and her animated facial expressions seemed almost, well…cartoon-like.


She immediately thrust out a colorful soft-cover book, “Look my book has just been published!” She flipped through pages, “See, this is a photo of me, and in this group photo I am here…” She rapidly described her experience decades ago as a singer and dancer on a weekly, TV variety show featuring cast members from the Brady Bunch show.


I looked at Maria and James, the three of us wide-eyed and speechless. Clearly, she had an interesting and varied show-business past. I wondered how this learning experience was going to play out for us as acting students.


Now, it has been many weeks since that day. It turns out that our teacher is a veteran in acting instruction, she also did years of study at the University of Southern California in the field of acting, and has extensive work in commercial acting. Her enthusiasm seems to never wane, her powerful laugh can blast out unexpectedly, as startling as an explosive sneeze. Happily, her acting and directing skills are creative, precise and insightful.


Our class is small, made up of the “out-of-town” students. (All the other participants live much closer and meet on a different day.) We three live two hours away, three others students travel about 6 hours one-way from the eastern part of the state to participate. The six of us are getting great personal coaching in such a small classroom setting.


We each have two assigned commercials to memorize. We deliver it to a video camera and watch the playback for practice. We each also have a monologue to act-out. It is like a dialogue between two people, but the other person is “imaginary” so the actor speaks and reacts in a way that is, hopefully, entertaining and that reveals to the audience the events of the scene.


It has been so much fun to be in this group with my son, James, and daughter, Maria. Things are going great, I am remembering how to memorize scripts once again—it’s been awhile; and having fun bringing out nuances in my acting.


The monologues are funny, and Maria and James do them well. They laugh when I perform mine, thankfully mine is also a comedic script and they are not just laughing in embarrassment at their mother. Okay, pretty sure they’re not…


Soon to come, we will be assigned acting partners for a “scene”, oh, and James and I went to a recording studio. I’ll share that with you soon.


I’ve added this blog to Digg.com, you can search under “Densley” or use the link in this sentence. If you “recommend” this blog on Digg.com it will help us pass this on to more people. Thanks for all of you who have donated to our trip; we are still using Paypal for that. Thanks, thanks, thanks!!!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

I Made a Movie!!

Wow, I figured out how to make a movie on my computer!!! Okay, so it's only 29 seconds, and it has a cluttered background, and simple sound...but it gets the message across. This is a video of me after returning home from a performance with my swing band, wearing a vintage fur coat. It was actually pretty cold tonight.

Our band played at the annual "Fantasy Forest" gala that is a fundraiser for our local hospital. Since my reinnervation surgery in May my voice has been getting much better. I had such a good time singing tonight and actually using my voice creatively. Hurray!! Hurray!!!

Ask your friends to help us get to LA. All the funds are due in just a few weeks. They can send us cash or checks or use a credit card at PayPal, send to MyPromDesign@gmail.com Even $5 helps!

As Long As Im Singing AndreaNov2009.wmv As Long As Im Singing AndreaNov2009.wmv

Click on the link to see the video